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Kids' Opinion on I Can Handle Difficult People
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I am so upset. The girls where I am are so cliquey. I try to be nice but it doesn't help. What can I do??
Ellen [Reply]
I have had trouble with bullies(mean girls) in the past. They made fun of me in everyway. For a long time , I showed them it bothered me and it got worse. When I started to stick my nose up at them and show them I didn't hear them and was not affected by them they stopped. Don't let them or anyone destroy your sense of self. Hold your head up high and believe in yourself and your abilities and you will show a confidence that no one can tear down. Try it and see!!
Ellen [Reply]
what do you do if this person won't leave you alone?, how do you resolve the problem?,and what if this person causes you to have troubles like sleeping or staying focused?
Tatiana

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Try ignoring this girl and the girls she gets to help her. People hate to be ignored. Show that it doesn't bother you, no matter how hard it is. Imagine her collecting garbage when she gets older. In the end , she will get what is coming to her. I know, because it happened to me long ago. If ignoring her for awhile doesn't help , tell the guidance counselor in school. They are trained to deal with people like this.
Grace

Thanks, but I did and she just went off and got all kinds of girls to pick on me.
Tatiana

If this person is in school, change your seat as soon as possible. You must look out for yourself, if this person is disturbing your focus. If you don't speak up for yourself who will speak up for you ? If you are afraid to change your seat , tell the person it is bothering you and ask them nicely to stop or else you will have your seat changed. It they don't stop , then change!
dara
The VPet is great to learn some skills to deal with difficult people. It helped me with a problem I was having with someone.
dara [Reply]
Wat is a way to handle difficult people when the difficult person is a teacher and they take advantage of the power that they have?
heather

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Yeah, but our teachers say personal things to get to you and sometimes its too much for it not to get to me.
heather

I had a teacher that said they were shocked I didn't get the anwer and that they were disappointed in me. It bothered me, but I try to think that they make mistakes ,too and I try not to let it get to me. I just say to myself the teacher is an idiot.


At my school, the teachers try putting you down so you automatically have to have a good comeback unless you get shot down. There is just this one teacher that bugs me and then the next minute he is sucking up to you trying to make you feel better . I dont know if anybody could understand this unless they were at this school.
heather

If the teacher yells at you alot try to make sure you are not doing anything to annoy them, like not listening. If you listen to them and hand in the work and they are still mean just ignore them. They might be having problems at home. I had this with a social studies teacher who picked on me for no reason. You can't yell at them or be disrespectful. If it is too much , I would go to the guidance office.

What is a good thing to do when you get really upset with someone else?


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I have a lot of trouble with difficult people too, but the best thing to do is to try and not yell and if that does not work go somewhere to like cool off or something. Haven't had a chance to try it yet but i'm sure that it works
heather

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